Sunday, October 9, 2011

Some Personal Stuff

I was going to record an IMM today, but all the drama going on with my friends has got me feeling pretty low and I'm not up to being happy and excited about books.
I don't normally talk a lot about personal stuff on the blog, but I felt the need to share this.

For the last two weeks there has been some drama going on in the group of friends I have had since high school. Even though we graduated over 6 years ago, we try to keep in touch and do stuff together, which isn't easy as everyone went off to college and we're spread out across the country.
There was a disagreement and it sort of escalated last Friday and it made one of my friends decide to not be a part of our group anymore. And it hurts. Because we had fun just two weeks ago at my birthday party and well, I think the group will be really falling apart after this. I don't think we'll ever really go back to the way things were before all this happened.

It feels like the end of an era. I know we've been growing apart for some time now and something like this happening was probably inevitable, but it still really sucks, you know? These are the friends I saw every day in high school and we've been through so much together. Some I've even known since kindergarten.

Sorry to bother you guys with my drama, but I needed to get it out. I think I'm just gonna hide beneath my blanket all day and read and watch some TV. Hopefully next week will be better, because I do have some great books to show you all.


  1. Awww that's terrible, sorry to hear it :-( I hope you can still remain friends with some in the group. I think curling up and watching tv for a while sounds perfect.

  2. I graduated about 7 years ago and I also have/had a group of friends I saw really often from the beginning of high school on. I know it is hard when a group changes. I also had a hard time accepting it. Hopefully you will also experience what I experienced some years ago. Our group split up in some smaller groups and I really had a hard time back then.
    My best friend from school moved away and we saw each other about every two or three months max. About three weeks ago he moved back and now we see each other more often again. Hopefully your group won't split up. I keep my fingers crossed and maybe you could try to keep in touch with the guy who "splits" from you.
    Cuddle up with a good book and keep your head up!
    Greetings from Vienna

  3. I'm so sorry! My best friend and I hardly do anything anymore. There hasn't been a falling out it's just we're so busy. It sucks though to not be able to hold on to your past. Good luck.

  4. I'm sorry, *hugs*
    My best friend lives hours away and we rarely get to see each other face to face. And our high school group sort of fell apart too, we are the only ones that keep in touch. It's always sad when it happens.

  5. Thanks for the support guys!!
    I've sent her an e-mail and she's responded, so I hope we can be ok in the end. I'm seeing most of the rest of the group this Sunday... We'll see how it all turns out.